Maya

這是看到facebook人家留言板上的轉寄文章:
People
come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually
to meet a need you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide
you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may
seem like a godsend and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time,
this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.

Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our
need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.




Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because
your turn has come to share, grow or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.

They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Be lieve it, it is real. But only for a season.




LIFETIME
relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things
you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson,
love the person and put what you have
learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.



突然覺得我已經準備好等待那個lifetime的人了，因為ㄧ切過去的事情都已經準備好了，包括之前感情上遇到的人或所受到的傷，其實都是在某個時期我的人生當中真的是需要他的存在而出現的，等到那個時期過了，這個人也離開了；或者有時候受了傷，其實會得到ㄧ個lesson（或教訓），然後我就能夠學的更成熟或有智慧，能夠繼續走下去。

所以對於愛情來說，那個reason的人都已經走過，現在會進來我的人生的會是lifetime的人（我覺得藍衫將軍對我是個lifetime，我對他我不確定是個reason或是個lifetime，可是真的就因為距離和兩個人都忙工作，兩個人對這段感情非常無心，所以也許是個沒有結局的lifetime），無論如何，現在能做的，就是等那個人的出現。